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   \vspace{-2pt}Published 5th June, 2018.\\
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{Having had girlfriends and been married, I have come to see that I need 6 things in a relationship if it is to work for me. \{\{nl\}\}Namely, I need to be {\bf{respected}}, {\bf{valued}} and {\bf{appreciated}}. I also need for us to be a {\bf{couple}}, I need her to express an {\bf{interest}} in me, and I want us to be {\bf{friends}}.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{Now, while these things are important to me, they may not be important to you. And that's ok!} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{My point is that we need to  know what we want in a relationship if we are to be happy in one.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{Please understand, that there is a difference between needs and wants. And I don't necessarily advocate that a relationship should meet all our needs and wants, as some be just be baggage from our past.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{In my last relationship, I did not have much of these 6 things and I became increasingly miserable.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{In practical terms, I will outline below what I mean through the use of questions. Some of these questions will overlap between sections and that's ok.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{In case you are wondering, these 6 things are things I expect of myself in an intimate relationship. If I cannot respect her, value her and appreciate her, then I am in the wrong relationship. It goes both ways as far as I am concerned.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{While I speak as a man here, it shouldn't come as a surprise that women also want to be respected, valued and appreciated. They also want to be a couple, want someone who takes an interest in them, and want a friend in their partner. It does go both ways.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{And this is where communication is vital in a relationship. Communication that is not dismissive, judmental, over-reactive... but open, honest and supportive.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{In other words, a communication that enables the relationship to work in that you are able to resolve issues together.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{\bf\textcolor{white}{Conclusion}}  \tn
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{So, to answer the question that is the title of this CheatSheet, YES you do need to know what you want in a relationship. Otherwise, you may end up in a relationship that does not work for you, as has happened to me.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{Liking/loving someone is not enough because we both are imperfect beings. We need to be able to live with them day-by -day and accept them unconditionally.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{We all have needs. And when it comes to an intimate relationship, we need our needs to be met if we are to be happy in that relationship.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{It has taken me a long time to finally know what I need in a relationship.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{I will add one more thing I need in a relationship: being able to work with her to make it work.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{For me, that means that I need someone who is gracious, approachable, patient, understanding, supportive and forgiving. And again, I expect myself to be the same with her. Otherwise, I am in the wrong relationship.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{Unfortunately for me, I seem to be attracted to the wrong type of women: strong-willed, self-willed, very independent and stubborn who think they know better than me.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{While it may be argued that there is nothing wrong with women (or men) being that way, they are not the type of women I feel I can work with to make a relationship work.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{But, that's me!} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{\bf\textcolor{white}{Conclusion (cont)}}  \tn
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{I have a very sensitive nature and {\bf{my}} 6 things are {\bf{my}} 6 things.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{You may very well have 6 different things based on who you are and what you have been through.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{And that's ok! I do not intend for {\bf{my}} 6 things to be {\bf{your}} 6 things.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{We all need to determine what is important for us in a relationship.} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{\bf\textcolor{white}{An Exercise...}}  \tn
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{What 6 things are important to you in a relationship?} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{Are these 6 things deal breakers if they don't exist in the relationship? YES / NO} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{Can you explain in practical terms what each of the 6 things are? (same as I did with the questions above)} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{\bf\textcolor{white}{An Exercise... (cont)}}  \tn
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{\bf\textcolor{white}{An Exercise... (cont)}}  \tn
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% That's all folks
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