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    \vspace{-2pt}\large{\bf{\textcolor{DarkBackground}{\textrm{Marriage Cheat Sheet}}}} \\
    \normalsize{by \textcolor{DarkBackground}{Greg Finzer (GregFinzer)} via \textcolor{DarkBackground}{\uline{cheatography.com/15280/cs/47888/}}}
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  \vspace{-2pt}Greg Finzer (GregFinzer) \\
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  \mymulticolumn{1}{p{5.377cm}}{\bf\textcolor{white}{Cheat Sheet}}  \\
   \vspace{-2pt}Published 20th April, 2026.\\
   Updated 21st April, 2026.\\
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{{\bf{To Follow The Lord Together}}  Revelation 4:11, Ecclesiastes 12:13} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{{\bf{Intimacy}} Genesis 2:24, \{\{link="https://cheatography.com/gregfinzer/cheat-sheets/song-of-solomon/"\}\}The Song of Solomon\{\{/link\}\}} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{Don't marry someone you can live with, marry someone you can't live without. Trust in the plan of God. Wait on the Lord. {\bf{Proverbs 18:22, Proverbs 3:5-6, Proverbs 19:21, Psalm 27:14}}} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{It is better to be single and miserable than married and miserable. Don't marry the wrong person. {\bf{Proverbs 12:4, Colossians 3:19}}} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{What you see is what you get. They might resist the completion of the Lord. {\bf{1 Corinthians 3:1-3, Philippians 1:6}}} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{1.  {\bf{Spiritual Commonality}} More than just believing in God. You must align on major doctrines. {\bf{2 Corrinthians 6:14, 1 Peter 3:8}}} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{2.  {\bf{Family Unity}} If both sets of parents do not like each other that is a problem. Marriage is not only the union of two people but a union of two families. {\bf{John 17:21}}} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{3.  {\bf{Things in Common}} You will be old and wrinkly when you are 80. You should like to do similar things so that you have more to do than just eating. {\bf{Philippians 2:1-2}}} \tn 
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\mymulticolumn{1}{x{5.377cm}}{1. To love the Lord God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength. To love others. {\bf{Mark 12:30, Matthew 22:39}}} \tn 
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