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Ten Virtues for the Modern Age Cheat Sheet (DRAFT) by [deleted]

Ten Virtues for the Modern Age

This is a draft cheat sheet. It is a work in progress and is not finished yet.

1. Resilience

Keeping going even when things are looking dark; accepting that reversals are normal; rememb­ering that human nature is in the end tough. Not fright­ening others with your fears.

2. Empathy

The capacity to connect imagin­atively with the sufferings and unique experi­ences of another person. The courage to become someone else and look back at yourself with honesty

3. Patience

We lose our temper because we believe that things should be perfect. We’ve grown so good in some areas (putting men on the moon etc.), we’re ever less able to deal with things that still insist on going wrong; like traffic, govern­ment, other people... We should grow calmer and more forgiving by getting more realistic about how things actually tend to go.

4. Sacrifice

We’re hardwired to seek our own advantage but also have a miraculous ability, very occasi­onally, to forego our own satisf­actions in the name of someone or something else. We won’t ever manage to raise a family, love someone else or save the planet if we don’t keep up with the art of sacrifice.

5. Politeness

Politeness has a bad name. We often assume it’s about being ‘fake’ (which is meant to be bad) as opposed to ‘really ourselves’ (which is meant to be good). However, given what we’re really like deep down, we should spare others too much exposure to our deeper selves. We need to learn ‘manners’, which aren’t evil - they are the necessary internal rules of civili­sation. Politeness is very linked to tolerance, the capacity to live alongside people whom one will never agree with, but at the same time, can’t avoid.

6. Humour

Seeing the funny sides of situations and of oneself doesn’t sound very serious, but it is integral to wisdom, because it’s a sign that one is able to put a benevolent finger on the gap between what we want to happen and what life can actually provide; what we dream of being and what we actually are, what we hope other people will be like and what they are actually like. Like anger, humour springs from disapp­oin­tment, but it’s disapp­oin­tment optimally channe­lled. It’s one of the best things we can do with our sadness.
 

Ten Virtues for the Modern Age

7. Self-a­war­eness

To know oneself is to try not to blame others for one’s troubles and moods; to have a sense of what’s going on inside oneself, and what actually belongs to the world.

8. Forgiv­eness

Forgiv­eness means a long memory of all the times when we wouldn’t have got through life without someone cutting us some slack. It’s recogn­ising that living with others isn’t possible without excusing errors.

9. Hope

The way the world is now is only a pale shadow of what it could one day be. We’re still only at the beginning of history. As you get older, despair becomes far easier, almost reflex (whereas in adoles­cence, it was still cool and advent­urous). Pessimism isn’t necess­arily deep, nor optimism shallow.

10. Confidence

The greatest projects and schemes die for no grander reasons than that we don’t dare. Confidence isn’t arrogance, it’s based on a constant awareness of how short life is and how little we ultimately lose from risking everything
           

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